5 Reasons Why Your Man Might Lose Interest After Having Sex With You

You decided to take things really slow with your man. You didn’t want to put out right away. You wanted to make sure that he was worthy of you. You wanted him to put in the effort before you allowed yourself to be vulnerable with him. Sure, you might have been tempted to just sleep with him earlier. But you knew that you needed to resist the temptation; you knew that you had to wait to see if the love was true or not. You might have been curious and anxious to know what he would be like in bed; but you really wanted to make sure that you had all bases covered first before you acted on your primal sensual instincts.

You decided to take things really slow with your man. You didn’t want to put out right away. You wanted to make sure that he was worthy of you. You wanted him to put in the effort before you allowed yourself to be vulnerable with him. Sure, you might have been tempted to just sleep with him earlier. But you knew that you needed to resist the temptation; you knew that you had to wait to see if the love was true or not. You might have been curious and anxious to know what he would be like in bed; but you really wanted to make sure that you had all bases covered first before you acted on your primal sensual instincts.

And did that work out well for you? Well, if you’re reading this article, it’s likely that things didn’t turn out as well as planned after all. Sure. You made him wait. And when you thought the time was right, you slept with him. And the quality of the sex is beside the point right now. What you’re wondering is why after you’ve had sex for the first time, he’s grown more distant towards you. You might have assumed that having sex with one another for the first time might be an opportunity for you to get closer together; to take your relationship to another level. But then, you felt like you were slowly losing grip of your relationship as a whole.

 

1.      All he ever really wanted in the first place was to have sex with you; and nothing more.

2.      His lust for you blindsided him to all the bad aspects of your personality that he didn’t like after all.

3.      He wasn’t feeling the sexual chemistry between the two of you.

4.      He’s intimidated by emotional involvement.

 

5.      He just didn’t feel like the relationship was going to work out after all.

Those are only five possible reasons but really, it can vary from relationship to relationship. The point is that you just have to make sure that you are with someone who loves you for who you are; someone who isn’t just after your body and the sexual pleasures that you can offer him.

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