You’ve met someone and you really like them! Maybe you’ve even “fallen in love” with them!
But something isn’t right.
You’re starting to see inconsistencies in their stories and you’re starting to sense that they aren’t trustworthy!
But then you check yourself and think, “Is it just me? Am I over-thinking this or being too jealous?”
Whether the problem is you or them, you must get to the bottom of it! You need to know if you are with a disloyal cheater!
Below are 7 signs of cheating that are easy to miss.
1.) THEY HAVE RANDOM MOOD SWINGS
One moment they act like they are totally obsessed with you. The next day, it’s like the “love switch” got turned off.
They suddenly treat you in a way that makes you feel totally un-loved!
If this keeps happening, you need to explore the reason why! No one deserves to be treated like this in any relationship.
If their behavior makes you feel devastated and alone, it needs to be addressed!
Could it be a mental health issue? Could it be that they had a bad day? Maybe.
But it could also be that their affection lies elsewhere and they are looking for a way out.
Cheaters almost always have emotional mood swings – because they are guilty and they know it!
2.) THEY DON’T LIKE YOU TO TOUCH THEIR PHONE
They get uncomfortable when you glance at your phone. And they don’t like you to pick up their phone unless they are directly monitoring you.
If your partner is guarding their phone in a nervous and territorial way, there is a very good chance that they are hiding something!
When you are in a trusting relationship, you shouldn’t have to be nervous or upset for someone to have access to your electronic devices.
Does their phone have top-secret business information on it? Are they planning a big surprise party for you? Are they looking up private financial information?
If none of these questions apply, they are more than likely hiding something from you.
Cheating, flirting, porn, dating apps, gambling, etc.
It’s a common cheating problem!
3.) THERE ARE SUDDEN CHANGES IN PDA
They use to want to hold you hand all the time and snuggle up in public!
They use to want to be seen with you and take you to public events!
Suddenly, they are getting irritated when you want to go out with them. They’d prefer to be with you only in private.
And when you are out together, they act weird! It’s not like it used to be at all!
4.) THEIR APPEARANCE SUDDENLY GETS MORE ATTENTION
Suddenly, your partner starts working out, losing weight, getting their hair styled and/or dyed, shaving, waxing, and putting a lot of effort into their appearance!
Maybe they want to look and feel better about themselves.
But if you already have some suspicions that they are cheating, this can be a major sign!
And if they get home and always take long showers and do their laundry, they are hiding the evidence.
Remember back in the early stages of your relationship, when you wanted to make sure that you looked absolutely perfect?
Maybe this is happening again – only with someone else.
5.) THEY’RE SUDDENLY VERY PROTECTIVE OF THEIR FINANCES
If you don’t openly share financial information with each other, this might be difficult to figure out.
But if you have access to each other’s finances, you may start to notice some changing financial patterns.
Has their salary deposit amount suddenly got smaller? Perhaps they have a separate bank account that you don’t know about.
Are there a few random cash withdrawals that you never heard about?
Or do they have a few credit cards that they’ve never disclosed to you.
If your finances are combined, this is a VERY SERIOUS problem and it needs to be addressed immediately.
If you don’t have proof, but you have suspicions, ask them about it. Their response will tell you a lot.
6.) THEY SUDDENLY BECOME OVERLY-LOVING AND ATTENTIVE
If you’re in a long-term, committed relationship, your partner may be cheating on you, but never intending for your relationship to end.
They just think they can get away with a little side-fling without it affecting your relationship.
To make sure that you continue to feel loved and adored, they may show you excess love and attention. They do not want you getting suspicious!
This behavior may also be due to guilt. They know that their actions are selfish and completely wrong, but they still want you to feel special to them.
If you start noticing that you are getting showered with attention and sweet, romantic gestures, it doesn’t mean that they are cheating on you!
But if you have started to notice inconsistencies in their stories and their whereabouts can never be completely confirmed, you may want to look into your suspicions.
7.) YOUR “GUT FEELING” NEVER GOES AWAY
There is this little feeling in the pit of your stomach that just won’t go away!
Are they acting slightly different? Is a story not matching up with what they said earlier? Has the atmosphere in your relationship shifted? Are they acting shifty? Are you friends at all suspicious?
You need to have a conversation about your concerns!
However, if you feel like they will lie to you anyways, stay quiet and watch them!
Cheaters usually get caught in their own web of lies and deception.
There is nothing like undeniable facts to catch a cheater out in the open!